Should I go out with the one that loves me or the one that I love?

really, really nice, wealthy but not exciting vs. really, really hot, turn-me-on exciting but not good to me 37 year old party princess looking to retire her crown

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1. the one that is good to you!!!
2. it's a short life go out with the one thats good to you,you want someone to cater to you,i hate dating people when they know that they got you and they act like it's all that,it's a turn on but comes with bad consequences.
3. you need to go with the man who treats you the best! if a man is not good for you then move on!
4. The first, cause that hot sh*t fades. You know that.
5. I think they can both do better than you from what you are writing. Why would they want a 37 year old party princess unless either one of them is 20 years older than you.
6. realy nice
7. go out with the one who loves you and come back with the one you love..........
8. Neither. Go out with the one you love, that also loves you.
9. Go with the one you love, take a chance. If it doesn't work out, there's always the hope the one who loves you will still be hanging around.
10. the really, really nice, weathy but not exciting one
11. why would you want someone who's a good fu*k, vs. someone who treats you nice? if he's rich, you can do fun things. buy a vibrator and go for guy number one.
12. The one that you love. I'm the same way. The nice guy that you're not loving will never do it for you. I think part of why you like the other guy is because he's a challenge. Go out, but don't marry this guy. See if being exclusive and together changes how he treats you. If it doesn't neither one of them are right, and start looking.
13. Its always better when your partner loves you more than you love (him or her). This way you have control of the relationship.
14. hmmm so the one you love isnt good to you but you still love him? does he love you? if he does love you and you love him then go out with him... but if he doesnt maybe you should give the other guy a chance.. you deserve to be treated better..you never know, you might like the guy later on
15. go with the nice guy, sugar. Trust me. If you are really looking to retire your crown, as you say, bachelor #1, who is nice, loves you, and better yet, has $$$, will be in it for the long haul. It's better to settle down with a nice guy than to chase after hormonal creeps. Trust me. Again, this all depends on where you are at. If you want fun and a nice little fling, go with #2- although my personal instinct would tell me NEVER to go with anyone who has not been good to you. But the real contender is #1- even if he is not exciting or cute, he is dependable- and that's a rarity in anyone. Settle down with him if you are ready to settle.
16. Neither - if you take the one that likes you - and has the money - you're a gold-digger...... if you take the one that turns you on but treats you bad in general - you'll be wasting your time with a loser - and looks fade
17. go with the one who good to u and treat u like a queen. u dont need a guy who beats on u all the time
18. Go with the someone who is good to you! If you're really looking to settle down it's time to move past the hot bad boys with no substance. Maybe neither of these is the right one, you may have to look a little longer to find someone that thinks of you as more than just a party princess and a good time. You want someone that you can see long time relationship potential with and who sees the same in you.
19. i I dont think u should go out with either.He should b every thing u want
20. At 37 you should be getting over whatever limited attraction "bad boys" once held for you. Forget exciting ... you are considering growing old with this person. Nice wins hands down.
21. The one that is good to you of course!!!!! You might decide to go out with the hot, exciting guy who doesn't treat you well, but you will eventually end up with the nice dependable one if he is still around.
22. Go for the really really nice - wealthy one. Having been down both paths in life.... the exciting- not nice one, will cause you serious un-happiness after the "excitement" wears off. The second time I married the nice nice nice -not wealthy guy- but I am happier than I have ever been in my life. Not nice to you - no matter how good the sex is .... isn't worth it in the long run. If they aren't nice to you- then they don't respect you and they will not be loyal to you. Why would you throw away a chance to have a nice comfortable life with someone you can count on, to be with someone that treats you like crap? Good Luck. Terri
23. Baby, and please say the baby......you know you want the a$$hole because he is fun and quick witted like I am.....and you know you want all that MONEY that the other boring loser has.....I would go with the jerk who has a personality, because you know all you can do is spend money, but personalitys like the "exciting" on you are talking about only come so often. Think about it......when was the last time a guy came along in your life that was REALLY exciting to be around? Its not very often because most guys are fake, and you and I both know how to tell the real and fake a$$ people from one another. CHOSE the A-hole, and thank me.
24. girl so for the one who makes u happy maeks u feel good bout urself dont be wit an ass cuz men never change NEVER they r who they r good luck girl