Guys, what is your opinion of my boyfs actions?

My partner and I are both 28. We have been together 5years. I leave uni soon and will move out of my parents and he wont come with me and live with me / get a mortgage. This is because he wont get a job because he wants to make a living as an artist. He doesnt do any art though as he lies in bed until lunchtime like he is retired. His rich daddy supports him He said last night when I told him it wasnt good enough that he would not change or get a job ever.I said I would be on my own buying everything and he said i wouldnt be on my own forever andf I can find somebody else who works if I dont want to support him. he then became controlling saying we had other issues such as me speaking to other men on the phone ( he has a problem with me talking to people and they where colleagues i have to speak to) what do you think

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1. I am a woman but i would say u'd better move on to a nicer guy
2. he sounds very immature,insecure, spoilt little mummies boy, lazy good for nothing twat,do yourself a favor blow him out.you will probably get more answers like this why not print them out.post the answers to him.and see if it has any effect.personally ide leave him now.what a loser.artist my a s s .just a lazy b a s t a r d.
3. It sounds like this guy hasn't realized that hes a 28 year old man. I've recently come to the realization that men will not change if you tell them to. They have to do it on their own. You need to show him that you can be OK without him. You can have a real job and still be an artist. But you need to tell him that if he doesnt grow up and realize that there are responsibilities that he needs to take care of to support himself and YOU, then you won't be there much longer. Its almost like we have gender roles. Men are SUPPOSED to be the providers. A woman should be cared for and be treated well. Now days men and women both work and provide but a woman doesnt want to feel like she has to support her man. I dont care what anyone says, it doesnt work like that. As far as the other men thing...don't let him tell you who you can and cannot talk to. He doesnt understand that when your in the working business sometimes you have to talk to people outside of the office. He would probably get that if he had a job like you do. Don;t ever let anyone control you or tell you what to do. Good luck hun
4. What? He sounds totally immature and selfish, he's 28 and letting daddy take care of him? Ditch him and find a real man who will support you, in all aspects of life. Sounds like he knows he is a loser and that is why he is insecure about you talking to your colleagues. I would dump his lazy behind in a hurry. And i am also female, lol.