plz evry1 read i need advive plz help ecspecially teens?

im 16 and me and my boyfriends relationship is on rocks. He flirts in my face and he lies all the time and he even denys me 2 other gurls. I luv hm and he says that he luvs me . He trys so hard 2 be like his 4rnds but i luv him bcuz i knw that he isnt really like that but im tired of this and im ready 2 end this his own friends tell me i shud let him go and me and his aunt r best4rnds and his parents luv me. i broke up wit him b4 cuz his dad is a retired pro baseball player meaning they r wealthy and people kept callin me a goldigger and im not my bday was last month and he got me diamond studs and didnt evn except them but 2maro is v-day wat am i 2 do plz help me

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1. First: Dump that guy - you're only 16 after all - you'll have plenty of time for relationships. Second: Learn to spell.
2. if he's lying and hurting you hun that's not love! Tell him to be himself, he shouldn't have to be like his friends or anyone else! If you are to the point to where you want nothing more than to have him to yourself or end it...then end it cuz obviously it's not getting any better!! Dont talk to his family about the situation though because that's going over his head and you don't wanna do that it'll make him feel like he has no power and make him want to leave you. And if you returned diamond earrings hun you aint no golddigga! you need to tell people to stay outta ur business and I wouldn't have even left him in the first place just cuz of what ppl said, maybe he's hurt from that and that's why he's actin like this...just talk to him about it though and hope that it will get better..and as far as v-day...just show him affection you know it's about love no gifts!! besides most guys i know and have dated in the past didn't even want gifts they wanted to just spend an evening with me...so i guess all guys are pretty much like that! Good luck hun
3. Dump he has no right to treat you like that you deserve better
4. go get a donkey
5. It sounds to me by what you're saying that he tells other girls he's not dating you, flirts with you and ignores you? LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS. End your relationship, high school love is supposed to be fun and it sounds to me he is just dragging you along like a toy, he doesn't have a reason to justify it, he's just doing it because he thinks it is cute. I know about these guys and they're not good for teenage girls, because they're so open and loving, forget valentines day with him because you'll sit there, looking at him wishing you broke up with him, the day won't be happy and I think it should be. Just break up with him, and spend the night watching cute love movies and talking to your friends. :-)
6. let him go
7. wow...
8. well your broken up so that makes you off the hook for getting gifts. and who cares what other people think?
9. Why do you put up with this jerk? Dump him or you will regret it.
10. i say dump him maybe he will realize what he has lost when he loses you.there a re two many guys out there to be treated like crap.maybe you need to find someone else.
11. Well hun if you dont want to be with him end it now..dont wait until valentines day..cause then for sure you would look like a gold digger to some. People may think you waited to see what you got before you broke it off. If your not happy today you wont be happy tomorrow or for the rest of your life.
12. Um, who cares? You broke up with him, get over it. Valentine's Day isn't a big deal at all.
13. Just say that your relationship isn't working and just ask if you can be friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend
14. No girl deserves to be treated that way! I say explain to him that if he's going to be like that then he doesn't deserve you.
15. talk to him. tell him how u feel. who cares what tomorrow is, its just a day makerted by halmark to get ur money. im not trying to sound like a bitch, but what if the 15th was valentines day? would it make a diff? so go tell him what u think, tonight, dont wait any longer and learn how to type please, i had to read ur letter 5 times to understand it
16. Hmm u r in a pickel arent u Well it seems he wants to be a friend with "benifits" its an internal conflict if u really love him still then accept the gift but dont go around boasting about it kinda keep it a secret if u dont accept the gift then say no politly( this is if he gets you something) but talk it out with him it will make it better
17. confrount him and give him two options to either stay with you and stop flirting or to break up. if you two realy like each other it will work out in the end. maybe you guys need to break up in order for him to see how good he had it. so break up with him and if he realy likes you then you will end up together. good luck
18. Fist off, learn how to speak correctly. It is really hard to read this question. Don't break up with someone because they give you a gift. Teens these days break up for some really silly things. When you are in a relationship everyday isn't perfect. Does he know how you feel about him flirting with other girls? You have to tell men/boys this things...straight up. Sometimes you have to spell it out for them. They can't read minds. If you told him how you feel & he is still disrespecting you - ditch him. If you haven't told him then you can't be too upset with him.
19. WOW!! get out of it now! i dated a guy for a long time who was kinda like that but not even that bad and it ended with my heart broken and feeling like crap for a long time!! really you need to get out now!! in the end you will be the one to get hurt if you dont take control of this now!
20. just do your routine , morning breakfast school home, then lunch school then back home, then dinner , go to sleep ,then another day will come ,,,,take care always http://www.google.com/custom?domains=www.champs2007.multiply.com&q=teenage+love+guide&sa=Search&sitesearch=&client=pub-7176723447630046&forid=1&ie=ISO-8859-1&oe=ISO-8859-1&cof=GALT%3A%23008000%3BGL%3A1%3BDIV%3A%23336699%3BVLC%3A663399%3BAH%3Acenter%3BBGC%3AFFFFFF%3BLBGC%3A336699%3BALC%3A0000FF%3BLC%3A0000FF%3BT%3A000000%3BGFNT%3A0000FF%3BGIMP%3A0000FF%3BLH%3A50%3BLW%3A57%3BL%3Ahttp%3A%2F%2Fi17.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb92%2Ftheoperative%2F49.gif%3BS%3Ahttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Fadsense%3BFORID%3A1&hl=en
21. I would stay together for a little bit longer. Try to work it out. It seems like your bf is a good guy underneath. I would just sit and talk to him like mature adults your trying to be and explain why he cant keep acting like this and treating you like this. Tell him you have enough problems without needing to constantly worry about his faithfulness to you but you love him and you want to make this work. Tell him he needs to stop showing off for his friends because they are telling you to leave him so it obviously isnt working. And stop caring about what people think of you. If you arent a gold digger it wont matter in the long run. People are just jealous of your relationship and it is bound to happen. Good Luck
22. if i was you i would just leave him alone if he cant treat you the way a young lady is supposed to, then like keysia cole says " let him go" if he cant act like your his g/f in public and denys you then thats not right at all.... men these days are little boys they dont seem to mature as quickly as woman so they tend to play little games but your playing with him if your putting up with this ..just because your in good with his fam doesnt mean he will like you more,,, ive been in the same situation before,, my advice move on and find someone whos worthy and can treat you the way your supposed to be treated....or... maybe one day when he sees you again in the future he will regret and maybe want to make up ,., ,., you never know.,.,,.
23. Maybe you should DUmp him but remember you will be the one who is going to be the saddy types.!!!i advise you to really seriosly tok to him.If nthn turns out....---EXTERMINATE HIM!!!!
24. BREAK UP WITH THAT ASSHOLE... YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULDN'T TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT!
25. try to talk to him and if it will not work then maybe you should tell him that yall need a break and see what happens from there
26. hun if he loves you for real he wouldnt be flirting in your face or lying to you ... just because you love his family is not a good reason to stay with him .. i know you probably dont want to read this ... but you are 16 you will have many boyfriends til you find the right man .. good luck.