I met ny bio mother after 56 years what to do?

I met my mother after 56 years she had to give me up for adoption because she was a prostitute in new york. she is now a school janitor at night. I proved her being my mother through DNA. I am very wealthy and want to have her retire and come live and handle my estate in Miami. I still am very mad at her though. what should I do?

Public Comments

1. not sure about you..but I like living easy without family ties...to me; she is a long lost relative
2. How about stop bullsh*ting and making up all kinds of stories !!!! You're a father one day, married to your sister another day... man.. you should be a fiction writer !!!
3. best thing you can do is try to be friends maybe but she is nothing more than a bio mom she was not there to watch you gain things or do things in life so your heart may be right but to put her in charge of your things is going to far, you do not know anything about the lady other than she is your bio mom
4. come up with a believable story....no one would put a stranger that is a janitor/prostitute in charge to their high dollar estate. blah, blah, blah
5. wtf i just looked at the questions you asked and i think you are making things up! why?so that people would mark your question as interesting? you should get a life F*ck off!
6. that is very kind of you, but you must as yourself if she can handle it first and some poeple get funny around money, being mad at her is ok but if you look at it this way, she loved you and was unselfish enough not to think about her need to have her baby with her but to realize that she could not look after you or expose you to her life style she probably realized you were doomed to her same lifestlye if you remained in her care, if she did not give you a gift of a better life you may never have been wealthy or had a good education or experienced some of the things you have in life, even if you have maybe had a hard life it could have been worse in her care, i am a mother i know that being with your child is the most important thing in a world to a mother but more inportant than that is there saftey happiness and security. it is great you want to help her but dont condecend her and make her feel like you doing her a favour, if it wasnt for her you would not have anything you have now, treat her with respect and love and you may fulfil the emty gap that was caused by feelings of abondonment, good luck and im glad you turned out a success,